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		<title>Treasury of Joy is a joy to treasure</title>
		<link>http://tangerinemeg.com/2010/02/01/treasury-of-joy-is-a-joy-to-treasure/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Feb 2010 04:07:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tangerine Meg</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear, dear Dearhearts,

I am very excited to have had my work chosen for an etsy &#8220;treasury&#8221; on the theme of Joy.
See you soon,
Meg
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear, dear Dearhearts,</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1228" title="Joy-Riding" src="http://tangerinemeg.com/trial2/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Joy-Riding.jpg" alt="Joy-Riding" width="222" height="170" /></p>
<p>I am very excited to have had my work chosen for an <a href="http://www.etsy.com/treasury_list.php?room_id=109624">etsy &#8220;treasury&#8221; on the theme of Joy</a>.</p>
<p>See you soon,<br />
Meg</p>
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		<title>Coincidentally, Pascal</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jan 2010 07:28:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tangerine Meg</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Greetings emboldened golden bold souls,
Earlier I scrawled a reminder to myself to buy petrol &#8211; I was waiting for a traffic light to change to green at the time. This is it:
I threw it down on the passenger seat next to me in the car and the note floated down and rotated enough to give [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Greetings emboldened golden bold souls,</p>
<p>Earlier I scrawled a reminder to myself to buy petrol &#8211; I was waiting for a traffic light to change to green at the time. This is it:</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1213" title="petrol_.loved_squiggle" src="http://tangerinemeg.com/trial2/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/petrol_.loved_squiggle.jpg" alt="petrol_.loved_squiggle" width="273" height="167" />I threw it down on the passenger seat next to me in the car and the note floated down and rotated enough to give me this wonderful hidden bonus reminder:</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1214" title="loved_petrol_squiggle" src="http://tangerinemeg.com/trial2/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/loved_petrol_squiggle.jpg" alt="loved_petrol_squiggle" width="273" height="167" />&#8220;loved&#8221; it looks like to me&#8230;</p>
<p>I am choosing to take it as a lovely coincidental message, perhaps from a greater power, via my subconscious. I am loved! So are you! Remember! <img src='http://tangerinemeg.com/trial2/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>My husband thought it looked like it said Pascal <img src='http://tangerinemeg.com/trial2/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' />  What do you think?</p>
<p>See you next time,<br />
Meg</p>
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		<title>Help me help Hearts for Haiti</title>
		<link>http://tangerinemeg.com/2010/01/26/help-me-help-hearts-for-haiti/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 09:35:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tangerine Meg</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hello Bold Souls!
I have been thinking a lot about general devastation and about Haiti and about both&#8230; and about how lucky I am to be safe and well and in a position to help. Perhaps you would like to join me.
Today I am posting:
1 a link to my offering (Serendipity pack of 7 art cards),
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Bold Souls!</p>
<p>I have been thinking a lot about general devastation and about Haiti and about both&#8230; and about how lucky I am to be safe and well and in a position to help. Perhaps you would like to join me.<br />
Today I am posting:<br />
1 a link to my offering (Serendipity pack of 7 art cards),<br />
2 some, I mean a lot, of favourites from the etsy Hearts for Haiti shop, and<br />
3 some other great charity links.</p>
<p>Already $14,000+ has been raised but the Hearts for Haiti etsy shop. Wow! Wouldn&#8217;t it be great to add to that? You can also read a <a href="http://etsyforhaiti.blogspot.com/">blog about the progress</a> of the shop. The idea with the Heart theme is to encourage Valentine&#8217;s Day gift makers/buyers, but all handmade things are welcome. Incidentally, I realised I have no exisiting heart images, which surprised me, and needs to be rectified <img src='http://tangerinemeg.com/trial2/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>My offering is a <a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=39111750">&#8220;Serendipity&#8221; mixed pack of 7 art cards for $30</a> &#8211; each usually $5.  The money goes (minus Paypal and etsy fees) to Doctors without Borders, and myself and the other  makers are covering postage. So 7 for $30, with free postage anywhere in the world. I would love to start by contributing $300ish towards the cause so I have 10 packs on offer.</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1185" title="7pack_2.0_small" src="http://tangerinemeg.com/trial2/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/7pack_2.0_small.jpg" alt="7pack_2.0_small" width="397" height="310" /></p>
<p><strong>My &#8216;Hearts for Haiti&#8217; etsy shop favourites (so far)</strong> selected just for you from the <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">35</span> <span style="text-decoration: line-through;">36</span> 40 pages of goodies&#8230; Get yourself a present or stock up for loved ones special gifts during the year (yey being organised!)</p>
<p><strong>$15 and under<br />
</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=38630324">&#8216;Beautiful Day&#8217; black and white art print</a> by zengarden</li>
<li><a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=38974042">Heart Digital collage</a> by analiese</li>
<li><a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=38789240">Kid&#8217;s hat</a> by beberagz</li>
<li><a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=38878741">Bent wire Wild West bookmark</a> with choice of 3 pictures by NORIK, or a  <a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=39321084">heart/doodle bookmark mix</a> from visionQuest</li>
<li><a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=38977744">Photographic print of cat</a> (this also in cat category, below) by 2nifty</li>
<li>Fun <a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=39178815">Sock Kitty tutorial</a> (this also in cat category, below) by cuddlet</li>
<li>ceramic <a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=39325933">trinket dish</a> by ginpins</li>
<li>Sweet <a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=39316621">earrings with hearts</a> by sweetside</li>
<li>Recipes and tips in <a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=39306394">It&#8217;s a Vegan Dog&#8217;s Life book</a> by vegandogslife</li>
<li>Digital <a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=39299263">bunny and me stamp</a> by Softpencil</li>
<li><a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=39245679">Hearts for Haiti heart charms</a> by CheapBoutiqueSupplies</li>
<li>Hooray! <a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=39244206">Re-usable produce bags</a> by greenmumtotes</li>
<li>tiny <a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=39198405">fish hair clip</a> by bloomz</li>
<li><a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=39190425">Photograph of lovely vintage rose</a> by petuniaz</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>$15 to $49</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Groovy <a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=38360264">neck wrap/decoration by plumfish</a></li>
<li>Cute <a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=39110906">heart pendant by kvoss designs</a>,</li>
<li><a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=39066571">Goddess pin doll</a> by Whimsigals,</li>
<li><a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=38967108">Hand-painted heart drawer knobs</a> by LeilasLoft</li>
<li><a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=38759991">Colored pencil tree drawing</a> by Jen O&#8217;Connell</li>
<li><a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=38678522">Handsewn handbag (purse)</a> by uniquestitches</li>
<li>Goodlooking, rustic, almost primitive <a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=38924300">heart pendant</a> by clynstudio</li>
<li><a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=38666144">Girl&#8217;s decorated long cardigan</a> by 3littlebirdsboutique</li>
<li>Soft <a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=38695416">crocheted iPhone pouch</a> by bonnieboon</li>
<li><a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=38760322">Toddlers crocheted hat</a> by ifanhour</li>
<li>Cool sterling silver <a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=38889280">hand pendant</a> on cord by echoandwild</li>
<li>Crocheted <a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=39078101">roses in a heart box</a> by willo</li>
<li><a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=39097051">Heart dog tag pendant</a> by Beadsinthebelfry</li>
<li><a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=39319324">Beanie with built in knitted beard</a> by taraduff</li>
<li><a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=39240215http://">Flower earrings</a> &#8211; yey flower power &#8211; by Kibble2008 (for pierced ears)</li>
<li>Funky <a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=39201230">kids heart design red tshirt</a> by curlymonkey</li>
<li><a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=39200705">Adults wool hat</a> by grannysknits &#8211; pretty colours</li>
<li>Groovalicious <a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=39178443">textured earrings</a> by simplyadorning</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>$50 plus</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Gorgeous <a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=38891096">decorated frame</a> by burnedfurniture</li>
<li><a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=38688950">Lino print with a story</a> by fattybird</li>
<li><a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=38658574">Eco-friendly</a> quilt by nacyanne</li>
<li>beautiful <a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=38667255">mixed media painting</a> by pamcarriker</li>
<li><a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=38996826">recycled sari silk neckpiece</a> by plumfish</li>
</ul>
<p><strong>Cat stuff</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=38856714">Cat pendant necklace</a> by purpleandlime</li>
<li><a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=38977744">Photographic print of cat</a> (also under $15) by 2nifty</li>
<li>awesome <a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=39230548">Cheshire Cat glow in the Dark tshirts</a> by banyantreeclothing</li>
<li>Fun <a href="http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=39178815">Sock Kitty tutorial</a> (also under $15) by cuddlet</li>
</ul>
<p>If there are any artisans&#8217; work that you specially like there is a link to their etsy shop on the same page. I think I have some new favourite shops!<br />
If you need help completing your purchase or want to pay with a credit card without joining Paypal, check out this link <a href="http://www.etsy.com/help_guide_checkout.php">www.etsy.com/help_guide_checkout.php</a></p>
<p><strong>Great charities offering assistance to Haitians:</strong></p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://tprf.org/press-room/20100119">TPRF</a></li>
<li><a href="https://secure.avaaz.org/en/stand_with_haiti/98.php" class="broken_link" >Avaaz</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.savethechildren.org/countries/latin-america-caribbean/haiti.html">Save the Children</a></li>
<li><a href="https://secure.salvationarmy.org/donations.nsf/donate?openform&amp;t=JM_CAR" class="broken_link" >Salvation Army</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.redcross.org.au/howyoucanhelp_Haiti_Appeal.htm">Red Cross</a></li>
<li><a href="https://secure.oxfamamerica.org/site/Donation2?3560.donation=form1&amp;df_id=3560" class="broken_link" >Oxfam</a></li>
</ul>
<p>And for the Adelaide-based, <a href="http://www.facebook.com/events.php?ref=sb#/event.php?eid=256416973730&amp;index=1">a rock concert</a> in a couple of weeks.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m gonna hit publish now. See you soon. Take care&#8230; let us care for each other the best we can.<br />
Meg</p>
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		<title>Sunday sunflowers, shirts and free shipping :)</title>
		<link>http://tangerinemeg.com/2010/01/23/sunday-sunflowers-shirts-and-free-shipping/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Jan 2010 00:05:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tangerine Meg</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Greetings and good day to you, fair and bold souls x o
Whilst we are enjoying alliteration (see blog title) and waiting for my offering to be uploaded to the etsy &#8216;Heart for Haiti&#8217; shop&#8230;. here are some visuals from post-Farmers Market painting and drawing last Sunday afternoon&#8230; and I even made a couple into tshirts!
&#8216;Twas [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Greetings and good day to you, fair and bold souls x o</p>
<p>Whilst we are enjoying alliteration (see blog title) and waiting for my offering to be uploaded to the etsy &#8216;Heart for Haiti&#8217; shop&#8230;. here are some visuals from post-Farmers Market painting and drawing last Sunday afternoon&#8230; and I even made a couple into tshirts!</p>
<p>&#8216;Twas a meandering kind of afternoon and I had purchased lovely sunflowers from the Farmers Market. J&#8217;adore the Farmers Market &#8211; had you noticed? I was also thinking about tshirt design. That doesn&#8217;t seem such a natural mix now I write it down, though it made sense at the time. First, a photo of the flowers (you can see a bit of my Board of Inspiration in the background):</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1191" title="sunflowersJan2010" src="http://tangerinemeg.com/trial2/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/sunflowersJan2010.jpg" alt="sunflowersJan2010" width="397" height="304" /></p>
<p>First painting of the day. We would paint with this craypas-and-paint technique at the Ruth Tuck Art School &#8211; some may remember the name, that of my mentor, the well-known Adelaidean watercolour painter and teacher.</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1177" title="sunflower_craypas_paint_small" src="http://tangerinemeg.com/trial2/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/sunflower_craypas_paint_small.jpg" alt="sunflower_craypas_paint_small" width="340" height="454" /></p>
<p>I experimented with ink drawing with a stick &#8211; might paint colour on this one yet.</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1178" title="sunflower_ink_stick_small" src="http://tangerinemeg.com/trial2/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/sunflower_ink_stick_small.jpg" alt="sunflower_ink_stick_small" width="340" height="471" /></p>
<p>Next my thoughts about circular emblems as tshirt designs led to this roundy round sunflower. There are (planned) unprinted areas within this design; so the colour of the shirt shows, which also allows the tshirt  to breathe better.</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1179" title="sunflower_photo_txtaoutline_paint_small" src="http://tangerinemeg.com/trial2/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/sunflower_photo_txtaoutline_paint_small.jpg" alt="sunflower_photo_txtaoutline_paint_small" width="397" height="392" /></p>
<p>Do you think this <a href="http://www.redbubble.com/people/tangerinemeg/t-shirts/4525348-1-sunday-sunflower">makes a good tshirt design</a>? Let me know in the comments section below, or on <a href="http://www.facebook.com/TangerineMegVisualArtist">Facebook</a>, or simply <a href="http://www.redbubble.com/people/tangerinemeg/t-shirts/4525348-1-sunday-sunflower">buy a tshirt</a>! I think the sunflower colours are just right with a blue background, and you can experiment with different colour shirts at that page. What colour shirt do you like it on? It looks kind of sunshiny on the golden yellow shirt, too.</p>
<p>Keep reading, I have &#8216;free shipping&#8217; news&#8230;</p>
<p><a href="http://www.redbubble.com/people/tangerinemeg/t-shirts/4525348-1-sunday-sunflower"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1181" title="sunday_sunflower_tshirt" src="http://tangerinemeg.com/trial2/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/sunday_sunflower_tshirt.jpg" alt="sunday_sunflower_tshirt" width="470" height="482" /></a></p>
<p>Finally, I got carried away with the juiciest, most watery watermelon ever &#8211; from the Farmers Market of course! I cubed some and arranged it on my great old Op Shop china plates, and thought about Paul Klee and his art, and building up pictures with handdrawn geometric shapes. The watermelon, too, was in  small, red, geometric shapes. Currently I have a big (watermelon) crush on the colour of watermelon! Here&#8217;s the original painting:</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1180" title="Klee_watermelon_small" src="http://tangerinemeg.com/trial2/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/Klee_watermelon_small.jpg" alt="Klee_watermelon_small" width="397" height="424" /></p>
<p>And here&#8217;s the <a href="http://www.redbubble.com/people/tangerinemeg/t-shirts/4525604-2-watermelon-abstract">Watermelon Abstract tshirt</a> design. It works better for the shirt with just one plate circle around the edges, more abstract and kind of cooler, I think, somehow.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.redbubble.com/people/tangerinemeg/t-shirts/4525604-2-watermelon-abstract"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1184" title="watermelonTonCranberry" src="http://tangerinemeg.com/trial2/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/watermelonTonCranberry.jpg" alt="watermelonTonCranberry" width="470" height="482" /></a></p>
<p><strong>Great News!</strong> Remember in the title of this I mentioned &#8216;free shipping&#8217;? I just found out that <a href="http://www.redbubble.com/people/tangerinemeg/t-shirts">an order of 3 tshirts entitles you to FREE SHIPPING! Go for it &#8211; I will be!</a> Remember the &#8216;girly tshirt&#8217; sizes are about 3 sizes smaller than the regular cut shirts.</p>
<p>So we wait for the Haiti/etsy thing to happen. I will keep an eye on it and let you know. Also I have looked through the 35 pages of items and selected a dozen or so favourites for you. Then we can all linky linky linky and get it known to as many people as we can.</p>
<p>Lots of everything lovely to you,<br />
Meg xo</p>
<p>All artwork copyright remains with me.</p>
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		<title>Be Bold: speak up&#8230;. friends don&#8217;t let friends speak crappily</title>
		<link>http://tangerinemeg.com/2010/01/18/be-bold-speak-up-friends-dont-let-friends-speak-crappily/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2010 01:00:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tangerine Meg</dc:creator>
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Today I wanted to share this bold article from Christine Kane, a wonderful musician, retreat maker, business coach and blogger. It is written so clearly, and I think it&#8217;s a great reminder to indeed watch our language.  Check out Christine&#8217;s site &#8211; there are quite a few resources there!
I&#8217;ll see you next time.
Enjoy!
Meg
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Dearhearts,</p>
<p>Today I wanted to share this bold article from Christine Kane, a wonderful musician, retreat maker, business coach and blogger. It is written so clearly, and I think it&#8217;s a great reminder to indeed watch our language.  Check out <a href="http://christinekane.com/blog/">Christine&#8217;s site</a> &#8211; there are quite a few resources there!</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll see you next time.<br />
Enjoy!<br />
Meg</p>
<h2><a title="Permanent Link to Watch Your Language" rel="bookmark" href="http://christinekane.com/blog/watch-your-language/">Watch Your Language </a></h2>
<h4>November 14th, 2007                by                 Christine Kane</h4>
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<p>Recently, I was in a car with the promoter of one of my performances. He had picked me up at the airport and was driving me to my hotel. On the way, we talked about guitars. We got onto the subject of <a href="http://www.olsonguitars.com/">Olson Guitars</a>, arguably the best guitar in the whole world. At one point, the promoter said, “Yea, well, in my entire life I’ll never own an Olson guitar.”</p>
<p>Many years ago, I’d probably let a remark like this slide on by, even adding my own “me either” to the mix.</p>
<p>Now, I can’t. Yoda steps into my head and says, (in a very Yoda-like voice) “So certain are you. Always with you it cannot be done.”</p>
<p>So, I turned to the promoter and said, “You are NOT allowed to say that!”</p>
<p>This is because I know the power of language. When you know that words become things and that words create worlds, it’s hard to let language slide.</p>
<p>At the <a href="http://christinekane.com/site/retreats/">retreats I facilitate</a>, I am constantly asking the women to re-word something they just said. By the third day, the women cast sideways glances at me when they know they’ve said something negative about themselves.</p>
<p>I can’t help it. I have a philosophy that friends don’t let friends speak crappily. Language is powerful. Words can create reality. Even if my promoter friend doesn’t know how on earth he’d ever get an Olson Guitar, it doesn’t mean he should cut off the possibility with his own words.</p>
<p>So, this is a reminder post. I know, from personal experience, how easy it is to slip back into old patterns of language. I know how easy it is to give little credence to the power of words.</p>
<p>So, here are 8 practical language principles for anyone who wants to be a better creator of her life.</p>
<h3>1 – Eliminate “never” and “always.”</h3>
<p>Never and always are words of hysteria. “I always screw everything up!” “I’ll never figure this out!” “I’ll never get an Olson Guitar.”</p>
<p>First off, it’s not true. If you <em>always</em> screwed everything up, you wouldn’t have made it out of the womb.</p>
<p>And second off, extreme words are designed to hook you. It’s just your emotions taking a joyride. You’re more powerful than that.</p>
<h3>2 – Use <em>AND</em> instead of <em>BUT</em>.</h3>
<p>“But” dismisses the statement before it. “And” includes it. For instance, “That’s a good article, but it needs some editing” isn’t nearly as encouraging as “That’s a good article, AND it needs some editing.” “I love you, but…” is another great example of the dismissive power of “but.”</p>
<h3>3 – Avoid “Should.”</h3>
<p>Should is a crappy word for many reasons. It is victim-speak. It disempowers its object. It negates desires, thereby making it harder to make choices. It adds a nebulous illusory energy to the decision making process. Use empowering language instead: “I could…” “I would…” “I am choosing to,” “I would like to,” “I don’t want to,” or “You might consider…”</p>
<h3>4 – Stop calling yourself depressed.</h3>
<p>Also stop allowing anyone to tell you that you are depressed. When you call yourself “depressed” or “obsessive compulsive” or “ADHD” or whatever – you’re claiming this thing. You’re calling it forth with the most powerful two words in our language: “I am.” That creates very little option for the transformation of this condition.</p>
<p>A friend of mine told me that she loved that I never called her depressed. I’m the only person who had refused that word to describe her. It helped her to get off anti-depressants.</p>
<p>Another friend of mine has challenged me to stop calling myself a <em>Four</em> on the <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2FWisdom-Enneagram-Psychological-Spiritual-Personality%2Fdp%2F0553378201%3Fie%3DUTF8%26s%3Dbooks%26qid%3D1195005914%26sr%3D8-1&amp;tag=christinekane-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325">enneagram</a><img style="border: medium none  ! important; margin: 0px ! important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=christinekane-20&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" />. She reminded me that the study of the enneagram is to reveal the essence of who we really are – and that we are not our number. She told me to stop defaulting into “I’m a four” when I get triggered.</p>
<h3>5 – Delete the word “hate” from your vocabulary.</h3>
<p>“Hate” has lots of energy. When you use it, you send lots of energy out into the very thing you “hate.” Even if it’s negative energy, it’s still a powerful force, adding its charge to that thing. You’re also depleting this energy from your own spirit as you say it.</p>
<h3>6 – <a href="http://christinekane.com/blog/9-irresistible-reasons-to-go-complaint-free-starting-right-now/">Go Complaint-Free.</a></h3>
<h3>7 – Be “great.”  Or “wonderful.”</h3>
<p>A disease of the artist temperament is a belief that we must be authentic at all costs. And so we can’t answer a simple “How are you?” without delving into an in-depth scan of our emotional temperature.</p>
<p>Try this instead: When people ask you how you’re doing, just say “I’m great!” I used to think if I told people I’m great, I had better have a damn good reason for saying it, like I just won the lottery or something. I thought it would make me look suspicious, and people would start to wonder if something was wrong with me. But then I did it. And you know what? Most people don’t really care why you’re great. You’re saying it for you.</p>
<h3>8 – Pay attention to the music of your speech.</h3>
<p>You know how some people? They talk in question marks? And you have no idea why? But it makes you think you shouldn’t really rely on them? And it makes you not want to hire them?</p>
<p>The music of your language says a lot about you. If you let your sentences droop like Eeyore, (”Thanks for noticing me.”) or if you do the uncertain question mark language, take note of what attitudes are causing this. These patterns are created for a reason. Even if it feels like faking it at first, generate confidence as you speak.</p></div>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Jan 2010 09:48:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Tangerine Meg</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hey Beautiful Bold Beings!
Hope you&#8217;ve had a delightful, bold and happy start to 2010. I have taken some plucky little steps towards my intended outcomes. I will be light today, though, after all my recent, soul-searching works!
Over the holidays I treated myself to a bargain book at Target: &#8220;Sesame Street, A Celebration. 40 Years of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Beautiful Bold Beings!</p>
<p>Hope you&#8217;ve had a delightful, bold and happy start to 2010. I have taken some plucky little steps towards my intended outcomes. I will be light today, though, after all my recent, soul-searching works!</p>
<p>Over the holidays I treated myself to a bargain book at Target: &#8220;<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Sesame-Street-Celebration-Years-Life/dp/1579126383/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1262857612&amp;sr=8-1">Sesame Street, A Celebration. 40 Years of Life on the Street</a>&#8221; and I have been contemplating my seeming hyper-connectedness to Sesame Street. I think it may have been cos I was living in America in the year it was launched &#8211; the year I turned 5! I am adoring poring over the book. I am sure I am not the only one who thinks &#8220;Sesame Street&#8221; is utterly and completely brilliant! Let me know if you heart &#8220;Sesame Street&#8221; too, in the comments section, or <a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Tangerine-Meg/111802960578">on Facebook</a>.</p>
<p>Here is my first school photo from when we got back to Australia:</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1166" title="littleMe" src="http://tangerinemeg.com/trial2/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/littleMe.jpg" alt="littleMe" width="170" height="238" /></p>
<p>Remember this great poem, too (though it&#8217;s about being 6 not 5)?</p>
<blockquote><p>When I was One,<br />
I had just begun.<br />
When I was Two,<br />
I was nearly new.<br />
When I was Three<br />
I was hardly me.<br />
When I was Four,<br />
I was not much more.<br />
When I was Five,<br />
I was just alive.<br />
But now I am Six,<br />
I&#8217;m as clever as clever,<br />
So I think I&#8217;ll be six now for ever and ever.</p>
<p>-AA Milne</p></blockquote>
<p>This post brought to you by the numbers 5 and 6 and the letter B.</p>
<p>Be bold, be you,<br />
Love Meg</p>
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